I've got a decent excuse for not much blogging. I've been so preoccupied with parenting duties that writing has sadly become a lower priority. Today I've made a conscious effort to use the precious relatively uninterrupted alone time I get to tap out a few keystrokes while baby Saffira has her morning nap.
It's been a good 90 minutes so far. I took care of some paperwork, cooked baby food (sweet potato, cabbage, carrot, chicken), and now this blog.I feel like my brain is slowly turning to mush with a steady diet of kids television and just playing with a 13 month old girl. I can grab snippets of time about 5-15 minute blocks when she entertains herself. But what can I accomplish in 15 minutes? Get a load of washing on the machine -stop. Hang them on the clothesline -stop. Make a sandwich -stop. Read a news article / watch a youtube video / comment and like my friends' Facebook updates -STOP!
However, it does all accumulate. It's just not in one long contiguous block. Is this what it's like to have ADHD? I can't stay focused on a single thing for too long and it takes ages for the gray matter to warm up to a new task or thought.
What I can say is that Parenting 2.0 has allowed me to enjoy Saffira's development so much more. I no longer fret why she is taking so long to develop a particular motor skill, confident that it will all come in time. I get to enjoy her just as she is and just where she is, because once she's moved on, it's gone for good. All that's left is a memory and whatever we've uploaded to youtube. Oh drats, she's awake now, gotta go...
Good on you Michael on discovering the pleasure of Parenting 2.0. I have to agree with you on all points.
ReplyDeleteI consider my youngest who is 11 years younger than her siblings as Parenting 2.0. We definitely have enjoyed her development so much more, probably because of experience or that we have less pressure. Now that my youngest is about to enter her teen-years. We are hoping we would enjoy it too...
Hahaha napilitan tuloy gumawa ng account para lang makapag post ng reply, sorry pare. I deliberately disabled anonymous comments to pre-empt any trolling ;-) Walang nangyari sa SWTOR, created an account pero could never log on to it. Looks like I just gave Bioware my email for no benefit to me. Bwiset!
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